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FINDING THE BEST OUT FROM DELAY AND DISAPPOINTMENT


"One’s best success comes after their greatest disappointments". ___jaypee101

Unless someone has lived a completely charmed life, there’s no one among us who has never faced disappointment at some point in his or her life.

Delay and disappointment are inevitable negative factors that occurs in life. Inevitable because it will sure happen and negative because we really do not like it when it does happen. How you can minimize its occurance and deal with it when it does happen is the what truly matters in the face of these turbulent waters. 

Disappointments occurs when one's expectations are cut short. Many have been disappointed by not getting a job they were sure of; when a loved one tears their heart apart; when they couldn't meet up the rent payment; when you're let down by someone you put so much hope in; academic failure and whole lots of situation could render us disappointed with ourselves, others and life. 

To avoid disappointment; when expecting something from someone, you should always know in your heart that there is a probability for the person not to deliver results. If we are not 100% expectant, disappointments will be reduced and we will appreciate things and people more. That's a win win.

In times when we are experiencing setbacks and delay, we should know that bad things happens something and try not be excessively worried. Delay is not a proof that good things won't come our way. It's just taking a longer time to cook properly. So, I advise you prepare to receive that delayed blessing. 😄

During those times, you should make sure you are not idle but are actively working towards the fulfillment of what we want.

Understand that Things are not always going to be all butterflies and cupcakes so when the tough and rough situations occur, know that it's not the end but just a bend to somewhere new and better.

Sometimes bad things have to happen to equip us with the right knowledge to deal with bigger problem for ourselves and people in the future.
You are not your mistakes; your mistakes just give rise to a better you.

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